Seduction, love and meditation: an especially captivating union when it comes to generating strong and intense emotional connections. Of those that make us fly ...
In contrast we find a society that desperately seeks to have everything under greater control. But let us not forget that morality and reason quickly fall defeated by the magic of passion, whose currents are always impressionable and mysterious; as much as we feel we dominate them.
Boys and girls, we want to own the great castrant of our lives. When I mean that we want to own, I don't just mean owning a new car, the latest iPhone model, or how many will intuit a boyfriend or girlfriend. I mean that life becomes a possession.
When we make love we do it to possess the enjoyment of a new orgasm. From an early age they set goals for us, to the point that in life everything begins to be limited to the fulfillment of those goals.
If you love a flower, don't pick it up. Because if you do this will die and cease to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation.
A change of possession for appreciation as OSHO proposes, does not approach the present. An artist is able to fall in love every day and while that love lasts enjoy all fragrance. It is not about continually falling in love with many people, but about exchanging our desire to possess the other for a desire to appreciate and admire him detached from having him. So that the seduction experienced becomes vivid and real.
Appreciate the flower, enjoy its aroma and beauty, but do not become obsessed with tearing it from the ground.
Sometimes they ask me, but are you not afraid to fall in love and be hurt? How can you give yourself so much to someone you barely know? What if they leave and abandon you? What if they disappoint you?
It is simpler than it seems, because we have to value the enjoyment of an intense life. A dangerous life, in which you are continually exposed to new emotions. Do not fear that they will harm you, because you understand that pain is part of life. Be brave
An attitude in which the damage they can do to you is too temporary, and can even be enjoyed. Even what harms others for you ceases to be important, because psychological damage depends on the importance given to it.
At the same time we have to be optimistic, because life and the people who live there have much to offer you in different contexts and situations.
If you change your attitude of possession for one of appreciation, don't you think you would be much more able to concentrate on everything that makes the other person unique? Don't you think you would be able to connect to a much deeper emotional level? How would you enjoy something that can only be offered once in a lifetime?
Love is not repetition. Each act of love is a cycle in itself, a closed orbit in its own ritual. It is, how could I explain, a fist of life.
As the great artists do, we can have the ability to fall in love every day and embark on other people's emotions towards the direction of a more magical and romantic present. Remove the most illustrious poet inside us from his ashes.
Single or as a couple, we can marvel just by seeing the other person and feeling an intense appreciation for her. Sit next to her, kiss her, smell her, hug her, pamper her ... with our mind in the background, maybe going on strike ...
It is your skin, your eyes, or perhaps your beautiful forms that drag the orchestra of my senses to produce the most beautiful melody of the sunset. And energetic and leisurely it contradicts itself again and again, undulating in the pleasure it loses me and drops me into a white and crazy void. A mischievous smile awaits me, and you throw it at me in what is the culmination of a fire that does not want to wither.
So disconnect from your thoughts and feel the energy of the other person. Let yourself be swept away by the beauty of your physical and thought forms. Meditation led to seduction and sex. Or, rather ... seduction and sex become a meditation.
My main occupation was always to cultivate the enjoyment of my senses; I never had another more important one (Giacomo Casanova).
The problem of many boys and girls is that instead of focusing on appreciating the other person and feeling captivated by her while seducing her, they place their focus on the tornado of their thoughts. Fears and insecurities that start from the desire they feel to possess the interest of the other person. They worry about liking and not shit! Unfortunately, thus his natural creativity dies without remedy.
When you leave all that aside and enter a meditative state of "no mind" caused by that connection generated by the other person, is when seduction and sex go completely natural and without thinking. We become creative and unique. What they say we can be attractive being ourselves, then it starts to make some sense ...
Never sell your individuality. People have to learn to be happy every day without relying on little more than our ability to feel alive in the now. Sometimes it is difficult, because we become addicted to people and things just as a drug addict becomes addicted to crack and thinks that he can no longer be happy without him.
If you learn to love and seduce knowing that whatever happens, you love yourself as an individual, you will feel the magic of loving without dependence. To love not for owning and expecting a return, but from the freedom of the one who intertwines his time with another person for the simple desire to share it together.
Enjoy as a deep breath the feeling of danger that not everything is forever. The desire for security kills people before death, while the true life that resides in the present is always insecure and beautiful. Beautiful because what is today tomorrow has already ceased to exist. Beautiful as the delicacy of the petals and roots of a flower.
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Without thinking that maybe tomorrow you can go with another, since the fear of tomorrow destroys your today, and an intense desire for possession will invade you with destructive jealousy. Today's appreciation is enough, someone loves you, celebrate it and be happy. Possessiveness and jealousy will only serve to keep you away from others.
When your senses are shaken in the embrace, enter that shudder (Tantra Sutra).
When you feel seduced by a person go crazy, absent your mind. Connect with your naturalness more animal, be more body. There is no finish line, there is only the way, enjoy it now or lose it wandering among a sleepy future. Become one with the other person while you seduce her, entwine your energies and become sensitive to the desire you feel for her.
Live in the present with that person, convey happiness and desire for an intense life full of ecstasy. Connect with her and her energy, do not fear tomorrow or give importance to possession. In this way I promise you that you will know the deepest seduction you can imagine. A seduction that It will imply a union of feelings and emotions on a spiritual and sexual level.
Lying on the mattress the sheets wrap us in defenselessness. We drifted over the worlds we felt toward the glare of our eyes. Loving what makes us different. Immersed in that amplification of our reality. Living in our fantasies by choice, without looking for a beginning or an end. Without looking at dates or commitments in the calendar. Making ours in that moment.