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How to control negative emotions: 5 simple techniques

Learn to control your emotions by fully accepting human psychology. All people have their character and go through moments of love and hate. Some are envious, others too proud, others are resentful, others frustrated, and others are simply happy, kind and smiling.

In any case, the emotional states of others (and of course their own) change at every moment. The feelings are constantly ongoing and how we feel notoriously determines how we behave.

Emotional control It is to be more capable of not being a slave to their energies and to take control of them to act in a way that suits your interests.

Get upset and angryBeing faced with outside behaviors can be useless, and end up generating more resentment and hatred than solutions.

Learn to interpret your own emotions with awareness. As in meditation, become an observer. If you put aside your own insecurities and desires, you will be able to empathize and visualize better the needs of others and what frustrates them.

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How to control your negative emotions
5 simple techniques

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Avoid unconscious emotional contagion

As an example of emotional controlI remember an anecdote that a student told me in one of my courses. He was looking for parking in a busy and distinguished area of ​​Barcelona, ​​where he was going to have dinner with a friend.

At one point, he went to park and during the maneuver it is seen that annoyed another driver. What caused that this one lowered the window and began to give him a good dose of insults.

My student's response was exemplary. He just lowered the window and said: Thank you very much gentleman, have a good night.

Her friend, surprised, asked her later: How did you say nothing more? It has put you well to broth. To which he replied: That person right now is full of shit inside, but his crap in my house does not enter. I decide what goes in and what doesn't.

Put your present goals ahead

Masterly way of managing your emotions, don't you think? This boy had a date. I wanted to feel pleasant emotions. That was his goal when leaving home; Do not alter with the hatred and anger of another person. Entering the dispute would not have won anything and could have lost much.

Remembering his goal allowed him to manage his emotions, which also helped him be perceived as a person with a attractive personality In the eyes of your date.

He simply observed, analyzed intelligently and acted, leaving aside the emotions that the other person could infect him. Also without falling into the pride that sometimes assails us when we disrespect and makes us make such awkward and disastrous decisions.

If there is nothing to gain except pride, that battle is as useless as a freckle in the ass.

Practice emotional control from detachment and acceptance

From detachment and acceptance you can better understand others and communicate with the precision and calm that will make you rise above their hearts. That is emotional management.

Accept without criminalizing anyone that we all have our moments and that others can act in a way that harms us sometimes even without wanting to. Heaven and hell are here. They live and experience themselves on earth through emotions. If we let other people spread their hatred, we will only contribute to a lack of understanding faithfully accompanied by mutual destruction.

It is not about being passive and not reacting to possible verbal aggressions or disrespect. It is about acting with strategic intelligence, looking for solutions through communication.

To prevent naivety and anticipate events there is only one attitude: observe. And observe well! Getting into the minds of others and trying to feel and think like them at that time. Leave emotions aside and tried to see through your eyes through the empathy. With the predisposition to seek a peaceful solution or avoid a senseless war.

Be a light in yourself

Sometimes we tend to judge and judge ourselves while we look for all kinds of excuses to justify that we are not where we want. It is one of the deceptions of the mind, which is thrown into the search for arguments that release the tensions of our failures. The conclusion is simple: before not being able to control the reactions of our emotions by the frustrationWhat we do is throw balls out. What implies to see us manipulated by them by means of a defense mechanism that little can help us to change.

Be the change you want to see in the world.
Gandhi

It is very easy to complain that our life is not our dream ideal. It is very easy to search and analyze all kinds of external factors or blame other people for our failures. But get up and say very loud: Here I am, I feel alive and able to find the solutions! That is more difficult ...

Worst of all, the deception is worth little, because deep down our needs remain unsatisfied. Then we put on the glasses of unhappiness and we can only see life through the reflection of that problem. And so we can spend years and years living in a emotional myopia... Being unhappy because our blindness prevents us from looking beyond the immense beauty that surrounds our lives.

Your dreams will give wings to your actions so that all the changes you want to make in your life occur. Everything is in your hands: dream, live and act. Be a light in yourself! Be the change you want to see in the world.
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Give way to frustration with change

Instead of trying to please yourself, get excited about the changes. As we know, emotions have a great energy that, when repressed, can end up exploding in some other way. But we can harness that energy for positive purposes that motivate us to change. That is the best way to output it: the illusion. Imagine in a future where our behaviors and results are different and attract that motivating energy to the present moment.

Remember those dreams you left behind or recreate new illusions and goals you want now. Imagine loaded with joy fighting to get it. Think that you have already obtained them, and from there rewind the tape. Start visualizing yourself doing what you have decided to do to get there. And do it in full color, don't imagine a hard road full of sacrifice and boredom, no.

Visualize a path of enthusiasm, where work is not work, but a passion that activates a vitality where motivation and enthusiasm surround you, filling you with satisfaction.
#wearebrave

Never abandon your ability to dream, for you will abandon your illusion. The results will not matter, these are consequences of the work. What really matters, whether you succeed or not, or what you have dreamed of as you dreamed or better or worse, is that your present is charged with energy. Of enthusiasm!

More in my free guide:
Emotional intelligence: Guide to manage your emotions

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He who learns from pain and his teachings sometimes deviates to paths of more pain; He has not learned more than repression. Knowing does not mean that what one knows drives him toward wise procedures. The stems of pain need poetry and acceptance so as not to rot your garden. Without poetry pain sometimes only brings more pain. With her you feel that you have never been nor will you be alone and that sorrows and joys always await in the new day.

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Passionate about psychology, poetry and fashion, David Jungle is the founder of the BRAVE JUNGLE brand. Being one of its designers and the author of the #wearebrave philosophy in most of his articles, poems and stories. He is a graduate in Marketing and Creative in Fashion Design. Also working as a coach for other companies and having published three books. His dream? Create an ecological and sustainable fashion brand that promotes a philosophy of overcoming and beauty in the face of the challenges of that social jungle in which we live.

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